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time warped time

20 Saturday Jun 2009

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Star Trek, Thoughts

watching Star Trek made me realise that preordained destiny is not restricted to a niche belief. as much as humans are divided into two schools of thought: one that hates feeling that life is a product of destiny and out of our control; and the second that can’t accept that there is no meaning and sense to life – do we all drift in a sea of abstract chaos? Star Trek talks (albiet vaguely) about two ideas: that the future is preordained in our own time conundrum; and that an alternate universe exists where life can potentially be mirroring that of our own – and time is just a construct, but one that has a supreme significance to our life and future. Time in that sense is a part of fate or destiny.

So in our meaningless/ful existential world, are we merely biding time until our future plays itself out for us? Apparently not – even in preodained-ness, there is a sense of control – a fighting spirit to either fix, change or correct the chain of events that brings us to the most acceptable future – and like any other rom-com or hindi flick, live happily ever after. But that is not real life. Real life exists in a complex fragmentation of self-doubts, misgivings, trials and minor triumphs – the latter giving one the will to move on. Ironically, without the ability to see into the future, one really doesn’t know what it is that we are moving on towards. Are we running away from our selves, or towards finding our selves? And even if it is either – that still brings us to the biggest problem facing humanity right now – the importance of the self.

If we take a movie like star trek to understand that we are but miniscule and largely insignificant players in the bigger picture – think how small each of us would look when viewed from another planet or galaxy – we begin to question the importance we give to our self. Every task we do, every decision we make in life, can eventually be traced right back to ourselves. Even if we do something for others – it is to make ourselves feel better. It’s like what Pheobe tried to do in an episode in Friends – and failed miserably – in finding the one unselfish act that would not amount to being self-serving. If we let ourselves become bigger – in our eyes – than the great populace, than say the planet or the human race; it can and will lead to no good. If we mean nothing, and are nothing by ourselves — and we exist based on the strength of the entire race, then maybe its time to start thinking about the bigger picture.

Tomorrow, if we had to make a decision to save ourselves or tons of other people – what would we choose? Captain Kirk (and his kind) are merely poster children of an extinct species.

the highs of the lows

01 Monday Jun 2009

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Art, luxurybrands, Stock Market, Thoughts

The stock market, the art market, the luxury goods market – all have been hit. I read a good article by Ben Lewis in The Times (UK) which thoroughly summarizes exactly what has been going on. Quoted from his article: “The prices were so high that they obliterated the meanings of the works, reducing them to symbols of excess and obscenity. I suspected that these prices were a sign that something was going dangerously wrong in the world economy and the human imagination.”

And this reflects across all the recessionary markets which faced inflated prices. At the end of the day, the behaviour of buyers is highly idiotic – they buy at a premium and sell to stay afloat at a low market. That is also what my father-in-law talks about, especially in his recent book that highlights the irrational behaviour of the buyers in the stock market.

It is not very different with art or luxury goods – it is also a severe case of herd mentality, when people buy because everyone else is buying, to make that quick buck bec they believe they will be left out, bec they are afraid of looking ‘uncool’ or ‘stupid’, or bec they just have a lot of money lying around. The worst is when people borrow to buy into goods at inflated prices, planning to cash in and make the big moolah. These people tend to slink away in misery when the markets are low, waiting for the markets to do well again, before investing! It makes no sense. The smart investor would buy when no one is buying and when the deals are available, right?

The other deal with inflated prices is that those aiming for statements of wealth are willing to part with more money, simply to appear ‘cooler’ – to have been able to afford a painting at an over-inflated price – a price that may never come around again until the next sucker turns up. These are people who are bound to be let down. This ability or willingness to part with a premium for something that may never be worth that much, denotes serious irrationality; and is one of the reasons that markets spiral out of control.

The question remains – how far is one willing to go to make that statement of wealth? to show that you have ‘arrived’ – how low are you willing to go, and how high a price are you willing to pay?

the secret of the secret

04 Monday May 2009

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The Secret, Thoughts

a while ago, everyone was talking about ‘the secret’ – the book that changed the lives of many people. apparently, if you desire something and you put it out there, the universe conspires to make it happen for you.

i was skeptical for quite a while. but my husband lived the secret. literally whatever he wanted, he could get, just by wishing it. so i knew it worked for him.

it was only recently that i realised – it does not respond to a hankering desire or need, or a sense of quiet desperation…. it responds merely to a quiet desire/ uttering – a statement you may have made in passing, which will suddenly come true or work for you. you say it/ wish it – unconsciously and then forget it. it isnt linked to thinking deeply about it with your heart and soul, just realising a desire. and it comes to you. it may take time, or happen immediately, but it works.

and that, according to me, is the secret of the secret. you only realise it when it happens to you.

when ad world meets real life

03 Sunday May 2009

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for the first time, i found an ad i actually identify with. the vodafone zoozoos actually send simple messages with these really cute characters. i read a mint article which sez that they are actually humans in costumes – where they could barely breathe. Apparently shot in S.Africa.

this is def work of genuis:

reminds me of this american cartoon i used to watch called shmoo:

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TV words of wisdom

30 Thursday Apr 2009

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From Prison Break; spoken by T-bag: “We are captives of our own identities, living in prisons of our own creation.”

From a TV ad for a channel: “It’s not where you start, it’s where you finish. It’s not where you are from, it’s where you are at. It’s not where you are, it’s where you are going. It’s not about the things you have done, it’s what you are doing now.”

when a system doesn’t exist

30 Thursday Apr 2009

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Democracy, India, Thoughts, Voting

Everyone’s been encouraged to vote. keeping aside the fact that we don’t even have the right candidates to vote for, we don’t even have the right system in place to actually vote. mismanaged centers, long lines, incorrect and not updated electoral rolls, inefficient staff and voting machines that don’t work… the list is endless. Today, there were regular voters 60+ years of age, whose names were mixed up on the electoral rolls. The wrong picture was against the wrong name, with a third voting number. many regular voters had suddenly been bumped off the electoral roll. there was no methodical system in place. the people checking looked lost and didnt know how to handle the problems. the machines appeared like they were registering the vote, but one could never be sure.

And yet, I feel amazed and happy to see the elderly – people over 80+ years of age find their way to the polling stations to vote. The young, the old, the sick the healthy, the rich the poor, were all there. can’t something change to live up to their expectations?

60+ years of democracy, of voting, of advancement, of IT professionals, of outsourcing and this is what we have? Zero systems. I read an India Today survey that listed the fortunes of most politicians to be in the hundreds of crores. I don’t mean to sound skeptical, but really, they never possessed that kind of money when they started out. When will it stop? Should we outsource our ‘democracy’ to a dictatorship so that our peace of mind is once again held hostage? How does one change a system so rotten to the core that it infects anyone who comes near it? Politics is a disease in this country and we are all plagued by our own choices.

bali and bollywood

30 Thursday Apr 2009

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Bali

on a recent visit to bali, i met with the ‘sleeping tiger of bali’ — Susi Johnston, among a host of other people who are doing super interesting things on the island. Susi is the power blogger of Bali and is a gold mine of information on the island. She played an important role in my story on bali’s haute brigade.

Here is what Susi had to say about the story: Bali goes to Bollywood (via Verve Magazine).

power docs and waiting lists

28 Tuesday Apr 2009

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i really dont get it, why doctors make you wait endless amounts of time, simply to make or break your day. its like a sense of power that they wield – ‘i have the ability to heal, so i also have the power to make u wait endlessly!’ i get the part where they have to rush around making better and healing the lot, but the fact that appointments are given to multiple people for one time slot, and then everyone waits in nervous anticipation that turns to vigourous impatience and finally severe exhaustion leads to more illnesses at a clinic/ hospital than getting better! You see sick people waiting around and you feel sick even if you are not – drained and numb. Dr’s visits should be like a shot – get in and get out; and cheery places. Definitely painted daffodil yellow and lime green, with a dash of aqua. Seeing it should make you feel better and like going on a vacation. As far away from the dr as possible!

chipped nails and life

25 Saturday Apr 2009

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Life is like a chipped nail – one that is actually chipped from the edge deep near the skin, with a sharp edge that snags everything it touches. You just gotta wait for it to grow out and blunt.

What are opportunities? Things that you hanker after hoping to get the chance to fulfil; things that you think you will do at some point of time (like a good deed) and when a chance comes your way, you think – ah, well not this time; or things you never expected to do, but just popped before you waiting to be accomplished; or finally things that you never got to do because someone got there first? Or a situation that you converted into something great. Or is an opportunity just accepting what comes your way, even a broken nail that snags?

Is it just waking up every day and doing what needs to be done, doing things right and just making the best of that day? Taking a positive approach to life…

Is an opportunity simply realising that every choice is an opportunity?

A broken nail is a choice simply in the way you deal with it.  to be honest, i stamp my foot, whishk in aggravation and file the damn thing. doesn’t bode too well, does it?

yummilicious, delicious, and so real

25 Saturday Apr 2009

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Food, Thoughts

i hear they have special food tasters to make the food as yummy as it is – in their pretty wrappings and fabulous boxes. all microwave-able and ready to eat. also i believe that preservatives, colour, additives, flavouring substances, chemicals, pesticides, hormones and such add to the flavour and taste. french fries and processed cheese are like plastic – so non-biodegradable that even bugs won’t come to them. apparently, you gotta go scout out without a hope in hell to actually eat organic. don’t believe me? watch supersize me.

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